In a relationship, someone who is committed and completely devoted to giving of themselves can be considered the ham. They have made the ultimate sacrifice. They can no longer be the pig. They are "all in." Someone who is not entirely present, and only contributes a part of themselves - time, effort, and love based on convenience or condition - is just a chicken. They provide the eggs, and nothing more.
A person can either be "the ham" or "the eggs." This is true in life, as it is in love.The analogy was used on a recent episode of "Grey's Anatomy," but it was simply stated by former Philadelphia Flyers hockey coach, Fred Shero:
"The difference between contribution and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken makes a contribution. The pig makes a committment."
Which are you now, and which will you become?
aqui

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